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Sunday, March 30, 2008

Collision

Bad mood ...limpness ....but a bit joyous !
Felicitous said it wasn't a real fight ....it more similar like fiddlestick "quarrelled" ...
Well...event related w Eagle new Pakistan frds -- Umer & Osman (twin brother --9yrs old) , they also stay same condo as us !
Eagle ve made appoitment w ths twin brother ...they just knw each other on last Thursday morning at swimming pool ...mayb children frdship s purely & innocent ...theirs relationship improved quite fast & amazing !
After that accidentally met , they sercetly made an appointment on the nx day morning 10am ^o^
By the way , ths may nt a big deal ...couldn't occured any quarrelled right ?
But...Eagle refused completed his task -- maths & English exercises (revision) on Friday morning..he ws rushed to meet his frds ...
He ws fidgeted and tried to fight w me at that moment !
Screamed ...shouted...cried ...ths ws what he hd done during his "fighting" time --almost 2hrs .
Mayb I ws also n frustrated mood too , then I told him n firmly that : " if u want to meet urs frds , firstly u must finish urs tasks ! if nt , nothg could duel nw !"
hahaha...
Ths factor s really useful , althought Eagle still stubbornly refused do his exercises at that meantime , but he also ve gained his "punishment" too --stay at home !
Eventually , Eagle realised that he hd totally "lost" n ths tiresome "fight" ....he could only called his frd -- Umer ...arranged a new appointment -- Monday morning 9:30am ^o^
Hwever , he still furiously thk that it ws unfair 4 him ...he refused talked to me ...glared me !
Victority ?
No ! I feel hurt ...heartbroken ...
Sometimes , I feel scruple ....shall I treat Eagle as normal kid ?
ya ! I sincerely hope my vigourly baby could changed as normal kid ..... I wldn't b so suffering nw !
Centain reasonable rules & regulation ...still must allowed use on hyperactivity kid -- ths s my personal view .
Anyway , I ve tried my best to gv Eagle a clear & strictly instruction ...let him knw he hd bn "over limited" !
In addition , I also told him a valuable mental -- "No Pain No Gain"
I love my children ...but not spoil them ^o^
Eagle , I knw u still angry & disappointed of ths "punishmt"....
Well...let ve a duel ok ?
If u could achieve urs tasks everyday ...I could accept urs demand too !
Athought u ve scolded me n acrimoniously ....but I still love u --baby ^o^
I love Eagle !