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Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Eagle sad...

Eagle form teacher --Mdm Tan wrote a note n Eagle organizer book...regarding Eagle don't brought story to school !..quite upset & curiously ...eagle really bn brought his favour story book "Winnie The Pooh" nside school bag but it ws lost n last wk !
Eagle also surprised & upset as it ws lost at school ...
He ws worrying whether his another favourable story book w lost again ?...so....he decided don't bring any story books to school again ...
Hwever , he told me about what mdm Tan suggestion : " bring mdm Tan animal story also can !"...then , he said w bring it on the nx day.
But ...he still ve a bit worry ...if teacher book lost ? ...
what to do ?I consoled him as " if really happen , I w pay 4 it lol !"he just satisfy & happy !
He also reported what he did at school yesterday ---talkative & punishmt {stood}
Well...it s great news as he realised his mistk !
His emotional control seen improvemt nw !
Althought ...Eagle still not a perfect student ...but he really changed a lot & improved n emoitonal control .
His exam result may not so well...but I still feel touch & satisfy his demeanour improvemt !
Eagle hd bn tried hard n his study & homewk since he joined Mdm Tan 2M class.
Finally , he knw the meaning of study !
He enjoys read science book , especially n animal & unique thgs !
Hope Eagle w not b a troublesome at school now....
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Well...about the Eagle homewk --journal "my best frd" ....eh , hw to say ?
I ws accompanied Eagle when he do his journal "my best frd"...he wrote Ann s his best frd n class !
then ...I really curiousy & asked him : " Urs best frd s Ann ? "...he gv me a fast & funny reply : " Ann more easy to write mah ...I only knw hw to write Ann lol !"
hahaha...what a cute answer I never heard b4 !
After that , I asked him again : " Eagle , did u really ve a best frd ? "
Eagle ws stopped his writting n sudden ...he huged me & told me : "I only ve 2 best frds , 1 s my lovely sister & the other 1 s my wonderful mummy ! "
I felt touched at that moment ...but a bit depressed too ....
I told him : "mum w always b urs best frd ...4ever !...but u still must ve other frds ...except mummy & Birdie oh !"
Really surprised he reply me n unhappy & confused smile : " I wldn't ve best frd lah ! bcoz I m hyperkids mah...teachers thk I m alien ! I m talkative & couldn't control n movemt want walk around to disturb other classmates only! I m hurt n feeling ...hate school too ....my classmates only ...aiyo ...not frd lah !...my classmates r normal mah ...I m hyper mah ...diff lah !they wldn't knw me 4ever ever lah !"
He continous said : " if u r not my mum ...u w also like other ppl ...wldn't accpet me right ? ...same as Birdie lol !...don't worry mum , I w try b good boy ok ! I knw u worry about me ...I knw everythg u done ...I knw hw suffering u r ...I w prove to other ppl that I m the best !"

Birdie & I were upset & worried about Eagle "negative" feeling nw ....
Besides, Eagle asked an innocent Q : " Did Dr Sheron bn a hyperkid b4 ? ...why she seen more understood my feeling ...my emotional ?...Mayb Dr Sheron a lier too " When he told me Dr Sheron s lier !
I really stocked ..."why , Eagle ?"...he reply n clamed : " Dr Sheron & Mdm Tan all r liers ...they told me if I wldn't speak loudy to ppl ...they wldn't do so ...but Mdm Tan scolded me loudly when I m n mistk ...but I m not shouted back or speak loudly to them ! Dr Sheron s lier ! ...I w tell her n nx treatmt ! "
I told him that "mayb urs class n container nw ...the echo more loud ...not mdm Tan scolded loudy to u ...Dr Sheron not a lier too ...but u still could view out urs feeling to Dr Sheron on ths Friday morning !"
Eagle grown up ....mayb his mind more mature than same ages children ...bcoz his hyper illness ...he hd to force himself face more "terrible & strange" reaction from other ppl...since he still a young boy it s a hard task to him too !
B hyperkid mum ...really a hard job.....but I wldn't gv up !
I knw b Eagle teacher also a suffering task !
I ve a nice chatted with Eagle last night ...he promised w b more tolerance & patient during lesson ...ths mayb the best way 4 teacher & Eagle .
Eagle may ve some unexpectable reaction like mumbling ...sudden talk to himself n strange words loudly..etc when doing hmwk ....
I ve talked to Eagle & discussed with his Dr about ths incident ...ths mayb other way released hyperkids emotion as they face troubles n writing or too stressful ...normal reaction !
Ths may caused some disturbing n class too ...hope Eagle w control himself well n class...
Did Eagle w still causes any troubles n class ?
Wish Eagle w enjoy his school life !
Another minor wish : Mdm Tan also feels happy b Eagle teacher & my frd too !
frdship 4ever !