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Monday, October 1, 2007

Exam time !!

Well...exam s coming soon !
Really stress ...worry...whether my lovely kids Eagle & Birdie could handle well n theirs exam ?
I m nt a demanding mum...
My only hopes s let my kids ve wonderful childhood ^o^
Why most of the parents gv theirs kids n such terrible & grimly & hasty pressures ...
Result s really important than a kids moral ?
I really couldn't agreed or stood of that's kind of "hopes" !!
Children mean the most valuable thgs 4 a family ^o^
They let a family bcomes more harmony...peaceful...full of love !
Why made a children bcome parent "shw off weapon" ?
Did a well result kids ve a really exquisitely behaviour ?
Mayb ve ...but quite tiny "hopes" right ?
So...I let my "hopes" change to the other way -- Well Moral
N my opinion , moral s couldn't buy or earn fm easy way ...
Since my children young ...I gv them more independent mind...more freedom...more moral educate ...
Eagle ---my only son ...he s a hyperactivity kids ....moral s more important 4 him than his study result !
Bcoz he ve to knw hw to handle his own attitude ...hw to due w other ppl...hw to face problems by himself !
Did u heard a hyperkids parent put any hopes n theirs kids study result ?
No...no...as a hyperkids parent ...I could only hope my kid could gt a long w other ppl...could ve a memorial childhood ...infallible crime !
A well behavior kid ...w ve "brilliant future ^o^
Birdie s my only daughter ...she gt well behaviour ...she s nt edgily ...she s ebulliently...she nt stingy...she s compassionately...
Mayb her result not excellent than other kids ....but she feel unstressful during final exam !
My husband hd promised both kids ...among of them who could gt a better result than other w ve a rewards -- private notebook !
Just a minor competition btw silings ...ths may causes them b more "allegorize" n theirs study lol...
hehehe...
Parent could b cuning ...smart ...but should use n "right" way !
Not comparative w other same age kids ...but a minor "races" btw urs own kids !!
Why not ? Try it ...then u w gain what u 1s !!
But b4 that ...u should gv urs kids a well moral education ! Let them knw the bond of love ...the harmony of a family !
Then ths competition wldn't let kids feel uneasy or wild mind !