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Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Confusing ? worrying ?

Quite a few days my blog s empty...why ? bcoz I ws bored w my kids exam ....n family problem...my daughter "super bomb"...frds true story experiences...
1stly , my Eagle still stubbornly refused n his study lesson ...he still gt study trouble when the sentences s too long ! he still flight during recess time ....
2ndly , my daughter gt terrible marks n her revision test ...she may dwn to EM3 if her result still "bad" ! mayb w return too ....aiyo ! ...hw could I b equanimity to face all ths "bomb" ?
Sometimes , I ask myself : " did I gv them to much freedom ? " or " I gv them too lower request ? "
Nw , I surely understand why S'porean parents r "kia su" ...nt bcoz of theirs own honour...it all relevant w theirs kids future !
PSLE could stated a kid future ...a well-knw sec school may benefit to children...social life s cruel n pungency...
Did my theory go wrong ? a wonderful childhood life ...relaxing study eviroment ....pressureless...cheering ...
Hope my two lovely kids w understand my feeling ...non-demanding doesn't mean no hoping ...
Poor kids !! but I still confident that my kids w ve best future n other talentant !!
Hahaha...ths a best console words n my mind ^o^ -- Ah Q mind !
Except kids....my bro w ve 3rd kid soon....wah !! a bomb to me & my sis too ! Kids education fees quite costly nw ...his 2 daugthers just 2 ++ & 1 ++ nw ...burden may come heavier to my poor bro n parent ...cosy life nt easy to maintence...but I still couldn't comfrim yt about ths nfo -- mayb s a misinformation ?
I m nt malicious of my bro good productivity...best wishes to my bro --hope he could ve a son ths time ^o^ best wishes to my bro n-law too ...she really pity n suffer n pregnancy !
Traditional family always hope could ve son to continous theirs family Sur name n responsible ! My bro also face ths kind of fate n pressure ...good luck bro !!
My hubby frd Ooi , his sis - Angeline ws online w me ths few days ...she told me about her frd true story ...she also warned me about my hubby -- bware affair !!
After chatted w her ...felt uneasy...worried ...suspected...did I gv too much freedom to my hubby ?
Why marriage couldn't b trust nw ?